The Sexy Submissive
By Liz Everly
Submission. The word intrigues me.
The act of submission and how it relates to sex provides much fodder for my feminist erotic-romance writer mind. I don’t pretend to understand it with any kind of depth—maybe sensitivity and imagination, yes. And I always say to each his or her own between consensual adults in any discussion of preferences or orientation. I can see the sexiness in submission, in giving yourself over to someone else completely, and trusting them, sometimes literally, with your life. I also get that this kind of thing takes place in many bedrooms without even calling it submission or BDSM—in a subtle sort of way.
It also must be said, of course, that it could be VERY interesting for a lover to submit to you. Even if for just one night.
I’ve read a lot about BDSM, talked with a lot of practitioners, and I can…
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